Being an alpha male is something a lot of guys are obsessed with these days. Guys try very hard to become an alpha, and it's something they read a lot about on the internet. Some books have even been written on the subject. But the sad truth is that if you weren't born an alpha, you'll never become one.
It's something genetic, something wired deep down inside of us. Beta males can try their whole life to become an alpha, and still fail. But that's not to say you can only be an alpha if you were born with the right body or physique.
It's the way you speak, behave, and think. That's why even those guys who look like alphas might actually be cowering betas on the inside. You can never tell, until you see guys act in certain situations. Well, have you ever wondered what you are? You're about to find out. Just take this simple quiz, and we'll tell you just what kind of a man you really are.
But wait - that's not all. Just take the quiz All will become clear soon Working out is a pretty big deal these days, and it ties in strongly with masculinity. Guys who are bigger and stronger are generally seen as more attractive than weaker men, although this isn't always the case. But what about you? Do you work out? Video games are huge among men these days, and many people frequently accuse gamers of being so-called "man-children. Others dismiss both of these things. Respecting womyn is another thing that has gotten a lot of attention in recent years, and is beginning to become a huge part of our culture.
Guys are judged by how much they really respect womyn. Do YOU respect womyn? Guys are divided over which is better: a string of one night stands or a long, lasting relationship. The one night stands are fun and full of variety, but the lasting relationship provides you with meaningful love. Which would you rather have in your life? Eye contact is of course very important when socializing.
Maintaining eye contact is important, but staring too long is considered weird or intimidating. Most people go for a balance between the two. But what do you do when socializing? You political affiliation says a lot about what kind of man you really are. Of course, some actually most people don't even really care too much about politics, and are happy with the "bread and circus. What do you think? Height is unfortunately pretty important for men.
This is unfortunate because it's something men have no control over, and so it can be frustrating, especially when you're getting rejected by women because of your height. Most women prefer men who are a little taller Like it or not, income also plays a pretty big role in what women think of you.
It used to be that women were attracted to men with bug muscles only, but in the modern age many women are also attracted to men who can provide for them, which makes sense.
A man is truly tested when his personal space is invaded upon. Some men cower in these situations, while others react without even thinking.
Some have a plan, while others snap into their primal instincts. But what would you do if someone broke into your home? Masculinity has also traditionally been seen as a result of how many children you have. Men who can provide for large families are generally seen as stronger and more wealthy, and therefore they are seen as higher status. But how many kids do you want? Although we don't like to think about the possibility, getting cheated on does happen - and it can happen to ALL kinds of guys.
What matters is how we move forward and get on with our lives. But would you forgive a girl if she cheated one you? Extroversion and Introversion are two very interesting concepts in modern psychology.
The extrovert loves attention, and is constantly "performing" for the crowd. The introvert hates large crowds and values alone time. Which are you? Telling jokes is another way in which men can attract people and endear themselves to a room full of strangers. Men might not be the most attractive people, but if they can tell jokes then they can win their way into many hearts. Are you good at telling jokes? Parties are a big part of the social world these days.
Parties are where you go to meet people, and you might even find a romantic partner there. There are those who love parties, but there are also people who hate them. But what do you think about them? Losing your virginity can be a major turning point in your life. Making love for the first time can be a major boost of confidence, and it can also lift a weight off your shoulder. After all, there is massive pressure on losing your virginity.
Education is very important in this day and age, and your level of education can say a lot about who you are and what kind of a man you really are. There are many options when it comes to university, and some outside of college. But what did you pick? Many of the values we see as "traditional" have vanished from modern society, although there are many that are still lingering around.
Some people believe in traditional values, while others think they're outdated and detrimental. But what do you think? Breaking up can be one of the most traumatic times in a person's life It all depends on the person. Some people find breaking up very easy. Others will cry about it for days. But sometimes, it just has to be done. But what do you think about it? Being a natural leader is a very rare quality.
There are very few people that naturally command the attention of people around them. Very few people inspire others to follow their lead, but they do exist. Are you a natural born leader? Competitiveness is a common quality among most men. Where are programmed to naturally compete with other males over resources, mates, and land. But for some men, that competitive instinct is much stronger. How competitive are you? Posture is very important, more so than most men think. Your posture says a lot about you, and it's a big part in how you are evaluated by others in first impressions.
Some people have terrible posture, while others have very good posture. What about you? Volume is actually also very important, and it's usually associated with higher levels of masculinity.
Volume is associated with confidence, because confidence people believe fully in what they are saying. But are you a loud person?
Your handshake is another thing that says a lot about you. Some men see handshakes as a way to show dominance over other men. Some see it merely as a way to make a good first impression.
Others still prefer not to shake hands at all. But what did you think? Traditionally, men aren't supposed to act emotionally. For many years, and to this day, men are seen as weak if they show their emotions. Some even try to suppress them in a bid to seem more macho.