It is hard work. All these post confirming how doctors cheat all the time on their spouse kills me and my hope in a future with him. Matching caused a lot of drama in our relationship. While I admire his dedication, his focus and intelligence, it has been extremely hard on me. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. Did U have sex with her yet. Even without temple covenants marriage is a noble and worthy institution. Observe the suttle loony behavior of the family during thanksgiving. You will join the church. For instance, you probably want your children to be baptized into the Mormon faith when they are eight в is your fiancee okay with that.
If you are all sealed together, you will be together forever in the Celestial Kingdom. It will only get worse. It's easy to be blind to deal-breaking faults when you are young and in love. And the nonmember spouse may just put pressure on the member spouse to spend more time with them. Is he willing to, nay, interested. She will introduce you to the church. Until you do he's a free agent and in high demand. I'm so sorry to hear this. In high demand" I would be out the door. You will be surrounded by single women, many of whom are probably interested in dating and marrying a Mormon, so take advantage.
Of course they do. That response made her very happy. I think in most situations its either you join or she leaves- either you, or the church. But I am very lonely indeed, I have married to a doctor for 5 years, he has been struggling with his career change for years with achieving different fellowships and residency in different countries. If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. As a community, we're not set up for screening each funding request [more]. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. At that point, I would have gotten half of everything we own. I tiptoed into my current relationship with a medical student dating two years, med school is almost overand one of the first things I brought up when he was pursuing me and he pursued me HARD was that I would not be the kind of person that would date a doctor.
And if you can make it to the Tree of Life and still be with your partner, guess what. So I am at my dating prime. Thank you for pointing this out.