But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. At the end of the second date I knew I needed him in my life. I'm a doctors wife, my husband is a speciality physician. You will desire to have that eternal marriage, to have that support in taking kids to church, to be able to talk docterine with a like-minded individual. He's a good man. It is a decision he has to come to on his own - hopefully all sped up when he looks around at his current dating pool and eating way too much McDonalds. She went ahead a married a non member. It is much easier for the Holy Ghost to influence good people. I'm so sorry to hear this. I have this brain trapped after all these years.
Life is a journey and going through it with a true partner, and a mutual respect for curiosity, is so far greatly rewarding. It won't be easy with the lower salary but it will be better than the alternative. A good doctor must be willing to sacrifice his own needs for the good of his patient and as his wife, you sacrifice as well. The views expressed by individual users are the responsibility of those users and do not necessarily represent the position of the Church. Now Knowing your husband is surrounded by good looking women, makes you pray for them even harder. Did my heart good. My nonmember husband and I have been married for almost 18 years. I gave her a piece of my mind as my home is much happier and healthy now then when I was married to my x. I would not want my children raised Mormon which she seems intent on. Sometimes I often think he is a wrong choice.
He learned that I didn't pick up on ambiguity and that I took it personally when he didn't show consideration for me during the times that it was possible to. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. I would probably suggest that you cut your losses now. I then asked some questions about some of the essays, and her answer to everything is "because god. I constantly have to reprioritize my kid, work, other activities. If she says that the mission was the greatest experience and best two years of her life, any chance you have at a normal long-term healthy relationship is dim unless you convert. However, be careful to not ask something that may offend your date. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. Trust Building Exercises for Couples. Dating a mormon girl.
This insecurity is at the root of the princess syndrome. We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. I am so in need of a support group. Our relationship is not perfect, not easy, but absolutely amazing.