Women can be mean. Women can be cruel. Women have a seemingly endless capacity to absorb your best intentions without even offering sex in return. But they have. And they did. Getting ignored by women sucks. Getting rejected by them can hurt. Getting laughed at can be painful. I blamed women a lot — for the pain, the frustration, and the embarrassment u ntil one particularly introspective day, I asked myself a very important question:. What was different about them? The obvious truth was more painful than the lack of attention, rejection, and laughter combined.
It was all on my shoulders. Yes, there are external forces at play. Yes, she might just be a bitch. But, there is always something that you contributed to the situation that you can change. This might come as a rude shock. I want you to imagine this version of yourself walking through the morning sun, basking under its tender touch as you move from one exciting possibility to another.
As you round a street corner and scan your eyes through the crowd, you catch your first glimpse of her. At first, all you can see is a soft halo of light as the sun catches the fringes of her hair. But as she bounces and glides through the crowd, you can see more: the radiant smile, the warm eyes, the effortless way she floats amongst the thriving crowd with ease. Nothing seems to phase her as she makes her way towards you.
Spending the last week pushing towards what you believe is a beautiful and worthy cause has left you feeling strong, in control, and powerful and you decide to put it all to good use. Her big eyes track your voice back to your lips and she lifts them to meet your gaze. As the first hint of a smile starts to draw across her face, she turns her eyes forward again and keeps walking down the street. The version of you that connects deeply with all people rather than just waiting for a beautiful woman to come along and fill that empty hole in his life.
You lived your life fully, freely, and openly, and were able to experience everything you wanted, regardless of how women responded to you, not because of it. Now contrast this with how you live your life now and how that could leave you dependent on women to feel good.
You cause you pain. You live an unrewarding and unfulfilling life, making other things in life responsible for how you feel. When you create something, you have to take full responsibility for it.
The ball is in your court. But this is also the greatest blessing possible. When the balls in your court, you control the rules of the game. Taking full ownership of a situation gives you the power to change the situation to whatever you want it to be. If you still believe that the world is responsible for your life situation and how you feel about it, then the world around you is the only thing that can ever change your life situation or how you feel about it. This is the importance of ownership.
It puts full control of your life back in your hands and takes it out of those who have no interest in seeing you succeed. To stop blaming and resenting women, you need to shift the fundamental mechanism that was responsible for you blaming them in the first place. Go through your wardrobe and get rid of everything you own simply because you thought someone else might like you more because you own it.
Go through your cupboards and throw out everything you held on to because you thought it might one day impress someone. Ruin the story by telling them the complete truth. No more half-truths. No more fractions. Just balls to the wall honesty. Stop living the life that someone else has prescribed for you. Stop following their rules. Take action. Nothing changes till you take action. You will not become more satisfied and fulfilled by having all this information and sitting on your arse. You can become more attractive.
You can become more interesting. So there are no more excuses, no more reasons, no more defences for sitting on your arse and blaming the world around you. They deserve respect, admiration, appreciation! You sir — are a bitch…. I think most guys people in general turn themselves into bitches because it gives blame to others and lets them off the hook, just once. Then they go and continue with this victim mentality, which is very addictive. Sean Stephenson has some quirks, but he taught me a valuable lesson. Yes I have given respect and admiration and faithfulness!
What have I gotten in return unfaithfulness sex power trips and bullshit! Women are manipulative and controlling! I would be a rich man if it was not for women! Men need to get some balls and work out everyday and focus on being a car guy because my Challenger SRT8 gives me way more pleasure and a lot less headache then my wife! You sir, know nothing about some of us. You should blame your poor judgement when choosing a wife.
On top of that, we have to listen to comments such as yours. Im sick of you assholes, you bitches. If we set ourselves full responsibility for attracting people.. It will lean to social anxiety. Bad advice possibly to a group of people with issues in that region of their lives. People are complicated creatures with likes and dislikes.
The best advice is to get out there meet new people.. This is not your business, not your words, and nobody needs your worthless opinion about this. Im trying to help just like you in a different way, so if you dont like it, keep scrolling].
Look guys… or ugly ass girls. It will never end if you keep trying like a retard, instead youll suffer even more. Never trust anyone 2. Respect yourself and your actions 3. The third option should only and only be used when someone tries to control your life. You either live like a bitch, or fight for who you are.
Police is trash in this world, and so the world itself is. If you truly wanna be someone, you gotta decide between to be a trash, or to clean it. Youre your own police, you and only you can truly judge your actions against suffering. Thats not how you should live, its what may or may not clean up some shit in your life. And believe me, its worth dying for who you are than living just to live. Dude go suck a Penis. You are so vain as to be GAY if male! What a faggot. Nobody reads your incoherent babbling articles anyways. Please do the World a HUGE favor by grabbing a Firearm, loading it, taking off the safety, and firing into your brain ubtil you die.
This will save the rest of us from your insufficient genes. I respect your attitude to earn great money,you got yours i got mine. Remember one thing: you only show the way to great and pure wisdom. You can not offer wisdom. Wisdom is a gift not a product you can buy. Tell me, what is it you feel is missing from your life now? What kind of advice do you need? I agree with the other poster here. Its all your fault? Seriously man?